Clay Cane is a New York City-based writer who is recognized for his contributions in journalism. Clay is a regular contributor for various print and online publications such as The Advocate and BET.com. He is the author of the highly anticipated novel Ball-Shaped World, which is a fictionalized account of the black and Latino ballroom scene. Also, he is the Entertainment Editor at BET.com and a member of New York Film Critics Online. He can be reached at claycane@gmail.com.


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    Thursday, November 24, 2005


    music: "Mama" by Beth Hart "confused by own illusion ... she said it's only my pride ... "

    For a large part of my childhood I was raised in Washington State and had invaluable contact with Native American communities (feels weird to say “contact” as if they are aliens!). These experiences had a profound affect on me in regard to race, sexuality, gender and especially religion – the demons of Jim Crow Christianity never snatched me up! I truly believe once being freed from such a macabre religious structure like Christianity/Islam/Judaism that people of color are able to live much more fluidly, however, I will do a scathing entry on religion soon enough …. A few of my blogland friends have repeatedly made some Jim Crow Christian comments and I had to use all the force in my fingers to not bang out replies, but I digress ….

    With “Thanksgiving” upon us everyone is screaming “Happy Thanksgiving!” with NO consideration to the BASIC truths that most people know about the holiday. Every time I hear it, I slightly cringe. Usually I say Happy Turkey Day …. I’m sure most of you are aware Native Americans were annihilated off the planet and what that stands for in terms of Thanksgiving, but I wanted to share with you the FULL story. It is graphic, sad and reflective … I recommend everyone to think before saying “HAPPY THANKSGIVING.” I’m about to have an Oprah-esque moment … I believe words are extremely powerful, especially words that a NATION uses like THANKSGIVING. It’s paramount for people (especially black folks who have all the rage when all 50 states do not honor Dr. King’s birthday as a holiday, but could careless that Thanksgiving is a celebration of America’s greatest [yes, I said GREATEST atrocity) to be cognitive of what they give life to through words. If you have any thoughts please feel free to share (although I know this ain’t gonna get 50 posts like my celeb pic entries – I know, we like it trashy!!!) …

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    A harvest feast did take place in Plymouth in 1621, probably in mid-October and the Indians who attended were not even invited. It later became known as "Thanksgiving" but the Pilgrims never called it that. The pilgrim crop had failed miserably that year, but the agricultural expertise of the Pilgrims' Indian friend Squanto had produced 20 acres of corn without which the Pilgrims would have surely perished. The Pilgrims invited Massasoit, and it was he who then invited 90 or more of his Indian brothers and sisters to the affair to the chagrin of the indignant Europeans.

    No turkey, cranberry sauce or pumpkin pie was served, no prayers were offered and the Indians were not invited back. The Pilgrims did, however, consume a good deal of home brew. In fact, each Pilgrim drank at least a half gallon of ale a day which they preferred even to water. Contrary to popular mythology, the Pilgrims were no friends to the majority of local Indians. Just days before this alleged Thanksgiving communion, a company of Pilgrims led by Myles Standish actively sought the head of a local chief. They deliberately caused a rivalry between two friendly Indians, putting one against the other in an attempt to obtain "better intelligence and make them both more diligent." An 11-foot-high wall was erected around the entire settlement for the purpose of keeping the Indians out.

    Standish eventually got his bloody prize. He beheaded an Indian brave named Wituwamat and brought the head to
    Plymouth where it was displayed on a wooden spike for many years. Just a few years later, in about 1636, a force of colonists trapped some 700 Pequot Indian men, women, and children near the mouth of the Mystic River. English Captain John Mason attacked the Indian camp with "fire, sword, blunderbuss, and tomahawk."Only a handful escaped and few prisoners were taken, to the great delight of the Pilgrims:

    To see them frying in the fire, and the streams of their blood quenching the same, and the stench was horrible; but the victory seemed a sweet sacrifice, and they gave praise thereof to God.

    This event marked what was most likely the first actual Thanksgiving and the Pilgrims were pleased with the result. Any goodwill that may have existed was certainly now gone and by 1675
    Massachusetts and the surrounding colonies were in a full-scale war with the great Indian chief of the Wampanoags, Metacomet. Renamed "King Philip" by the White man, Metacomet watched the steady erosion of the lifestyle and culture of his people as European laws and values engulfed them. Forced into humiliating submission by the power of a distant king, Metacomet struck out in 1675 with raids on several isolated frontier towns. The expedient use of the so-called "Praying Indians," natives converted by the colonists to "Christianity," ultimately defeated the great Indian nation, just half a century after the arrival of the European historian Douglas Edward Leach describes the bitter end:

    The ruthless executions, the cruel sentences ... were all aimed at the same goal--unchallenging white supremacy in southern New England. That the program succeeded is convincingly demonstrated by the almost complete docility of the local native ever since.

    When Captain Benjamin Church tracked down and assassinated Metacomet, his body was quartered and parts were "left for the wolves." The great Indian chief's hands were cut off and sent to
    Boston and his head went to Plymouth where it was set upon a pole on Thanksgiving Day, 1676. Metacomet's nine-year-old son was destined for execution, the Puritan reasoning being that the offspring of the devil must pay for the sins of their father. He was instead shipped to the Caribbean to serve his life in slavery.

    In the midst of the Holocaust of the Red Man, Governor Dudley declared in 1704 a "General Thanksgiving"--not to celebrate the brotherhood of man---but for:

    [God's] infinite Goodness to extend His Favors ... In defeating and disappointing ... the Expeditions of the Enemy [Indians] against us, And the good Success given us against them, by delivering so many of them into our hands... Just two years later one could reap a $50 reward in
    Massachusetts for the scalp of an Indian.

    The model of the Indian reservation system in
    North America had its origin in Massachusetts. A series of legislative acts "for the better regulation of the Indians" established Indian settlements throughout the state. A White overseer was appointed and white Christianity was imposed. Historian George F. Weston wrote that demand was great for ropemaker John Harrison, what with "the need for rigging for all the ships and a new rope every time an Indian was hanged."

    Bon Appetite!

    Fore more information on this check out Lies My Teacher Told Me: Everything Your American History Textbook Got Wrong by James Loewen.

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    Sunday, November 13, 2005

    I finally watched an episode of The Boondocks tonight and it was a pure act of artistic ruthlessness that Aaron McGruder should be praised for. FINALLY a show from a black artist that’s politically charged and throws bloody, crack your teeth punches to an unsuspecting Cartoon Network audience.

    The Boondocks
    is from the legendary urban comic strip of the same title. The story follows the adventures of junior revolutionary Huey Freeman and his hip-hop obsessed younger brother, Riley (BOTH narrated by the incredibly talented Regina King) , who live in a white, middle-class suburb with their grandfather.

    The episode titled "The Trial of R. Kelly" opens with images of Whitney and Bobby, BET and the pissmaster himself, R. Kelly. Words like "nigger," "chocolate monkey" and "colored" are tossed around as much as flabby booty on a bad hip-hop video. My mouth dropped in scenes with protesters (three people -- one including Cornell West!) and supporters (a massive crowd) at an R. Kelly trial. Images of black folks with sloppily hand painted misspelled signs stating "Free R. Kelly" and a heavy set woman eating fried chicken with blonde corn rows, screaming at a news camera exploded on my television with a humor and sarcasm that I've never seen on a cartoon.

    One of the main characters, Riley, screams: "I see piss I move...she see piss she stays." Sadly, this is what I've heard from some black folks about R. Kelly. Kelly wins the trial with this "move out of the way philosophy" and supporters dance and shake their titties/ass in the courtroom to Kelly’s music. It was insane!!!! McGruder takes one punch after the other depicting images of black folks that I only talk about in the company of other black folks.

    The Boondocks television premiere has gotten protests and critiques from Muslim activist Najee Ali and serial whiner Bill Cosby -- mainly due to the use of the word nigger. While I am not a fan of the word in music there is artistic merit of the word in The Boondocks. McGruder is turning the mirror on black folks (it is a magnified mirror!) asking US to take a look at US -- he is not concerned about positive representation for the eyes of white people. In a recent interview McGruder stated: “I think it makes the show sincere. At a certain point, we all have to realize that sometimes we use bad language. And the ‘N word’ is used so commonly, by not only myself, but by a lot of people I know, that it feels fake to write around it and to avoid using it.”

    Some of the images were shocking (I am hard to shock!), but an intelligent audience can easily dissect that this isn't McGruder praising this foolishness -- like BET -- this is McGruder giving a sharp, unapologetic critique with no censorship. I can imagine more people will be offended and would rather have sugary-sweet shows like Everybody Hates Chris from the once in-your-face comedian Chris Rock.

    Here are some moments that wore me out:

    In the courtroom a woman had on a "PEE ON ME" shirt ....

    Huey says: "Every Nigga that goes to jail is not Nelson Mandela!"

    Whitney: Hell to the naw!! Bobby, don't hit me. See...we have this TV show...and...and...it's our TV show...and I was trynna get a lil bit mo' time on it...
    Bobby: It's my show bitch!! (SLAP!)

    Huey again: I am often vexed by the behavior of my own people. You do what you can to help black folks and it makes you wonder why even bother, but they are our people so you gotta help them regardless ...one thing for sure you can't blame this one on the white man -- what am I saying? Of course I can!

    I am in awe of this show and will be a loyal fan every Sunday night at
    11pm on the Cartoon Network!

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    Friday, November 11, 2005

    music: "Turn The Lights Off" by Tweet

    Pasted below please find the link for my Men's Fitness movie review of 50 Cent's Get Rich or Die Tryin.' Before you see the film read this review!!!

    Get Rich or Die Tryin' Review: Is 50 Cent Worth Eight Dollars?

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    Wednesday, November 02, 2005

    music: "Carrion" by Fiona Apple "won't do no good to hold no seance ... "

    This is not to the straights like my momma, friends or my blog boys/girls … this is for the vapid, foolish and willfully ignorant people that justify their hatred in the name of God and hetero privilege.

    I recently did an article for Blackplanet.com titled Gay vs. Straight: A Common Ground, which is about the relationship between gay men and straight women. On Blackplanet.com they have a so-called forum and I was mortified at some of the responses to the article! I should never be shocked at ignorance, but these posts were the absolute lowest common denominator of utter foolishness and contagious absurdity. While this does not reflect the black community as a whole … it is a strong, poisonous taste. Here are a few of the responses ... I did not correct the grammar:

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    Wow By:
    Illini_E Look, if you are gay, why would you want to hang around straight folks anyway, and if your straight, and like to hang with gays, then maybe you better take a deeper look in the mirror.Bottom line.....if you are Gay, we are not hanging....i care less if we were previously friends for 50 years, you pull a rufus and chuck on me....we ain't boys no more. Matter of fact, i may have to beat you down, cause now everyone might think i'm gay.
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    By: DazeyJ Who wants to be around that perversion?I don't gay bash and I'll be cordial but hanging out on a regular basis? I'll pass! I don't want those spirits to become too familiar! Also, as a mother, I have to be very careful of what I open myself up to.

    (AS A MOTHER WE ALREADY SEE WHAT SHE'S TEACHING HER CHILDREN! ---- HER PROFILE PROUDLY STATES “I am pro-life and don`t believe in gay rights.”)
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    Knowledge is infinite!!! By: tranesha I will admit that i am Christian and believe that being gay is wrong. On the other hand, i'm not gonna completely dismiss the article because of that belief. Because if you are a truly learned Christian you know that everyone isn't meant to go to heaven. Duh! Praise God!!

    (YOU KNOW WHEN SOMEONE STARTS A COMMENT WITH "I'M A CHRISTIAN" -- IT'S GOING TO GET REAL JIM CROW-ISH. THIS WOMAN IS A HARDCORE CHRISTIAN; HOWEVER, ACCORDING TO HER PROFILE SHE IS “INVOLVED,” BUT NOT MARRIED! ACCORDING TO THE BIBLE ANY WOMEN WHO ARE NOT A VIRGIN WHEN THEY ARE MARRIED ARE AN ABOMINATION AND SO WILL ALL THEIR DESCENDANTS …. ACTUALLY THAT IS REPEATED MORE THAN HOMOSEXUALITY IS EVER STATED … I GUESS SHE MISSED THAT!)

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    What??????? By: BlackBraniac This article is straight trash. Gay is wrong so don't try to make anything good come from it. IT IS A SIN! STOP TRYING TO JUSTIFY IT! GOD'S WRATH IS SOON TO COME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    (THIS IS FROM SOMEONE WHOSE SEXUALITY ISN’T LABELED ON HIS PROFILE AND ONE OF HIS INTERESTS IS AN “ACTIVIST”)
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    Silly People! By: 11Kap BLACK Men should not have to sacrifice their masculinity to get along with BLACK women. This is pure nonsense! Who needs a black woman like that? Men have to be platonic with some women, but that doesn't mean that gay men are better at it. I guess the world will not feel safe until every BLACK MAN in the world is a fag, so NO MORE BLACK CHILDREN WILL BE BORN....that's what this article is too timid to address.....azzholes! I know there will be gay people in the world, but do they have to be up on a pedestal? Please! Gimme a friggin' break already? at face value wrong

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    By: queenragga i have to admit.. most the gay males i encounter are very funny and entertianing..friendship is easily started, however when they want to tell all it gets very gross lol..they are better company at shopping! Beside in reality it just a modern day sodom and gomorrah. God help us all!
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    GOD bless us all By: christoferpea It's kinda disturbing how "MAINSTREAM' homosexuality is becoming. I'm not judging because to GOD sin is sin.. But 10 years ago, the policy was "don't ask, don't tell." Now.. people tell if when U don't care to know. I won't go all biblical.. but the the law IS placed in our hearts.. & we are some CONFUSED people. If this is the current standard of living.. We need to either be BEGGING for GOD's mercy.. or praying for forgiveness for Sodom & Gomorrah.

    (THIS IS FROM A GUY WHO LISTS HIS FAVORITE PEOPLE AS OPRAH AND ANGELA DAVIS! ALSO, HIS PROFILE LISTS HE IS SINGLE AND HAS KIDS – FUNNY HOW THE STRAIGHTS LOVE TO CHERRY-PICK WITH THE BIBLE … SEXUALITY GLOWS IN THEIR MIND BUT THEY CONVENIENTLY FORGET ACCORDING TO THE JIM CROW BIBLE THAT BEARERS OF CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK ARE AN ABOMINATION AND THEIR CHILDREN WILL BE AN ABOMINATION)
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    Some of this might be upsetting to read – actually a lot of it is laughable – but it shows how much work we have as people from straight to gay who are conscious and progressive. Not every post had these comments, but these "types" were definitely the majority.
    I really felt like I was reading a KKK site! The Klans hates gay as much as they hate black folks. Some of these comments are scary ... especially considering Blackplanet.com would ban any users (especially if they were white) who posted "black niggers should all die!"

    More importantly, could you imagine if you were a young, black man who is questioning your sexuality and you happened to come across this article (
    while cruising for a date in the 200+ gay Blackplanet.com chat room) - you're pleased to see an article discussing anything black and gay, BUT you read this forum .... suddenly you regress from the progress you had with your sexuality, confirming your fear that this is the way many black folks think. In addition, for some black gay folks who have not dealt with their sexuality they think no other black gay people exist -- gayness is equated with whiteness.

    These mindsets on Blackplanet.com are reinforced in the black church, on street corners in black neighborhoods, at predominately black colleges, etc. This is not to say EVERY black person has this mindset, but we often forget there is such an extreme way to go for education.
    I know there is homophobia in all cultures, however, the black community is often used as buffer -- meaning, I've heard right-wing politicians complain, "These gays are saying African-American rights are the same thing!" I've never heard a gay person say that - I think it is media hype. What the right-wing (and left wing) are trying to do is make African-Americans feel like gays are the enemy. "Don't let those faggots think they have it worse than you niggers!" All of it is a tool of decisiveness.... it is very sad ... There is such a long way to go for consciousness.

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